- Employees know whether or not you really care about them – if you listen to their ideas, communicate openly, understand their key strengths, and compensate them fairly.
- Clients will know if you truly care about them -- if you are responsive to their needs, provide proactive customer service and offer solutions that help them work better/smarter/faster.
1. Shutting out those who know the problem best.
Employees are generally aware of the issues at hand and some may have good suggestions on how to turn things around; after all, they are the ones in the trenches who have a vested interest – a continuing paycheck and a potential payout on their stock options. Keeping them in the dark creates an environment of distrust and insecurity.
In one case, the CEO held a weekly conference call with the team. The majority of the time when someone voiced an issue the response would typically be: “This isn’t relevant to the rest of the group; let’s take this out of band.” Needless to say, that offline conversation rarely happened. After awhile, the weekly conference calls were nothing more than a cheerleading session where most people were on mute (e.g., doing other things) while the CEO congratulated himself and the team or staying in business for yet another week.
2. Promising what you can’t deliver.
Employees and consultants share the same ongoing objective – getting paid for their work and having access to necessary resources. Unfortunately, management doesn’t always get the memo.
In one startup, consultants were rarely paid on time and employees’ expenses were not readily reimbursed. They’d hear the “check is the mail” and then two weeks later, nothing. “ One employee who reportedly emailed the CEO on a daily basis to let him know there was still nothing in his mailbox finally received his check with an added bonus: a termination notice inside.
In another instance, the product specs were oversold; customer deadlines were not being met and the CEO’s phone went straight to voice mail. Employees had no idea what to communicate to their accounts and so eventually, their business began migrating elsewhere.
3. Gossiping about others.
To me this is probably the worse offense I’ve witnessed in a company -- the CEO who gossips about his employees, his board members and even his customers. Sure it’s hard to be the CEO when you’re at the top of the food chain and no one to gripe to but hey, haven’t you heard…. it’s lonely at the top.
A recent Randstad survey of more than 1,500 U.S. employees found that three out of five workers listed gossip as their top workplace pet peeve. If the CEO is gossiping to me about someone else…what is he saying about me to others? In that environment of distrust, everyone’s watching his back and not the bottom line.
Compassionate leaders can avoid or manage crisis best when they listen to the concerns/feedback from the team, communicate expectations clearly and honestly and doesn't disrespect others by gossiping. A leader that chooses to cultivate compassion will have a significant advantage over those that do not. Business owners may consider this "Dalai Lama approach" to be too touchy-feely, but in truth, cultivating positive relationships is at the core of any successful business or relationship.
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